Mom, Michael and I flew to Cape Town on Thursday, 4 May. It is approximately a 2 hour flight and its the first time I’ve flow domestically since before Covid. I don’t dislike flying, I just prefer to make road trips and stop off in funny little downs and investigate them. The flight was fine and we arrived at 12pm as planned.
After settling into our hotel, we went to the V&A Waterfront which is the old Cape Town Harbour. It is still a working harbour but has been glamourized and has a large shopping mall, an aquarium, art galleries, the beautiful Victoria and Alfred Hotel, and lots of restaurants and watering holes.
These are a few of the pictures I took for Dan’s Thursday Doors:




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We flew home on Sunday, after a lovely day at the South African Festival of Children’s Literature in Somerset West. On Wednesday, Michael had a check up with the ENT who wasn’t happy with the state of his sinuses (red and inflamed) and ordered a whole lot of blood tests. Michael had blood taken on Thursday, an awful experience because the nurse couldn’t find a vein. Michael ended up sweating and pale and about to faint. That evening his blood pressure went up and stayed up. On Wednesday this week he was admitted into hospital with hypertension. He’s had a bunch of tests but they haven’t revealed the root cause of any of his problems and the hypertension has been put down to an over-reaction by his body to salt and anxiety (medically induced – how ironic and appropriate). We now need to change his diet to reduce salt drastically – yay! At least his heart, kidneys and liver are fine so I should be happy, it would be nice to have a root cause though. More tests will be coming up.
The poor boy’s arm looks like a pin cushion and is covered in huge bruises from where more blood was taken the the drip for the CT scan was put up. The radiologist couldn’t find a working vein for the drip so he had to have an angiogram done to find a suitable vein. What a morning we had yesterday.
I wrote these poems in the hospital for Colleen’s Tanka Tuesday challenge which asked for a poem using a synonym of work and play.
Vein strike
Bloodless veins
Cause drip malfunction
Assignment
Incomplete
Angiogram divines vein
Drama is over
The Thief
Blood swooshes
Heart pumps frenziedly
Veins expand
And lengthen
As stealthy, silent killer
Steals vitality
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Poor Michael! I too have trouble with blood tests as no vien can be found. That alone gives me high blood pressure. I do hope they find the root cause. Cape Town looks like a nice place.
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Thank you, Darlene. It is lovely in CPT and we are visiting again in December. I am trying to persuade my husband to consider moving their rather than the UK.
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Surrounding Michael and all those who care for him and provide care for him with Angels! Experiences such as his are no fun for adults, let alone someone his age. The photos of your trip fill my head with excitement. It is as though I can hear everything, smell it, and feel it. Thank you. ❤
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HI Annette, thank you for your kind comments. The trip to Cape Town was lovely. I adore the ocean.
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That looks like a wonderful trip, but the ending was awful. I, too, have hypertension and take a handful of pills for it. I am much older and it’s not surprising. I hope you can find some answers.
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Hi Craig, apparently hypertension is very unusual in teens. It could be lung related or it could be Covid related. Ugh! We may never know. They never found out what caused my husband’s thrombosis on the brain.
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Not knowing is maddening. Hope you can get some answers.
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Oh dear, poor Michael. On the positive note you went to South African Festival of Children’s Literature in Somerset West (very close to me!).
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Hi Chris, yes, it was a lovely day. I knew I was close to you, but I was literally there for the event and had to leave early the next day. We are planning to visit CPT in January 2024 and I hope we can meet up then.
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What a lovely idea! I’m sure I will be properly back then.
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That is great news.
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Lovely doors, Robbie. I’m sure you know the crane doors are my favorites. Being along the waterfront is always nice. I much prefer that to being on a beach. I’m very sorry to hear about the rough time Michael had. I hope they can find a reason and some way to bring this all under control. We will keep a good thought for him and keep him in our prayers.
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HI Dan, thank you for your kind thoughts and words. At least he is home now. I thought you would like the crane picture – I think it is quite splendid.
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I love cranes 🙂
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I’m so sorry you and Michael had to endure all that, especially after what looks to have been a wonderful trip. I hope they find the cause of his issues and heal him. Sending healing energy his way…
Yvette M Calleiro 🙂
http://yvettemcalleiro.blogspot.com
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Hi Yvette, thank you. He is doing better now. A trip to Cape Town is always lovely.
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so glad to hear he’s on the mend. love your creative interpretation here!
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Thank you, da-AL.
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Very appealing photos from your trip, Robbie, but very sorry about Michael’s latest health difficulties. 😦 Wishing him the best.
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Thank you, Dave, Cape Town is a wonderful city to visit. Michael is at least home now.
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Poor Michael. Robbie, I wonder if Michael is dehydrated? I have thyroid issues and have blood drawn all the time. I bruise terribly. I noticed if I drink those drinks with electrolyte solutions in them, it helps before giving blood. I also have asthma, (Michael does too, if I remember correctly) and those meds can mess with your blood pressure. I hope they get him on a better path to healing. Sending lots of hugs and love to you guys. 💖
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Hi Colleen, the kidney doctor didn’t find anything wrong but the pulmonologist things it may be a lung problem so he needs more tests. Thankfully at home. He is covered in bruises from those tests. Next time, I’ll get him to drink more in advance of the tests. Thanks for that advice.
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The poor kid! I feel bad for him. I had asthma all my life and had to learn things the hard way. I’m going to email you. 💖
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My heart goes out to you and Michael. Will they ever solve his sinus problems? The poor child.
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Hi Jacqui, the doctors are really trying. He is just a medical mystery. They’ve even consulted with doctors in the US and Canada about his case.
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Poor Michael! I hope this has been the worst of it and he’s on the upswing now.
The waterfront photos are so cool!
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Hi Vera, the Waterfront is lovely and it was a good trip. Michael is doing better now, thank you.
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Oh, poor Michael! I totally relate as they often have difficulty finding my veins. I agree with you, it would be nice to know the root cause of the issue. Best wishes to you both. Love the Tankas!
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Hi Jan, thank you. I am sorry you also have issues with veins. I am lucky and have large veins so I never have any problems. It is quite traumatic for the poor victim, haha, I mean patient, when they struggle.
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I am so sorry about what Michael is going through. How absolutely awful. I think I understand the vein issue because my parents both have tiny veins, so mine are so tiny that I have to request a “butterfly” (used for babies) each time I get a blood draw. It is so frustrating though not to have medical answers. I imagine you are all feeling really really frustrated over it. Good idea to use the recent experience for your poem. And the photos are a wonderful window to the area.
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Hi Luanne, they did use a butterfly needle the second time around but a lot of damage had already been done. Poetry is a nice way of venting and also remembering. I wrote a lot of Covid poetry at the time so that I would remember that time in the future. It already feels like a dream to me. Thanks for visiting.
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Nice photos, Robbie. The harbor is impressive. Sorry about Michael’s health issues, hoping things get better for him. My best to you and yours. ❤
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HI Tim, Michael is home now which is better. He has tablets but no proper diagnosis. More tests to come, but they can be done as an out patient. Cape Town harbour is very lovely.
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Oh gosh. Too many bloody test, can seriously play havoc with veins. And so nurses -well – you know!.
Great poem paints the picture well of the ordeal.
I hope the find the root cause.
Hugs and all the best.
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Hi BElla, yes, you do know how it can go in hospital. The radiologist said the nurses ‘ruined’ his veins for use but they will repair over time. We still don’t have a diagnosis. Poetry always helps me vent.
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Stay strong. Hugs
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Good to hear veins repair over time. Hugs to you. You are going through so much. Vent away , better out than in. Hugs
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I think so too. Hugs
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Oh, no!! I’m so sorry to hear Michael ended up back in the hospital. That poor kid can’t catch a break. Sending healing thoughts to both of you.
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Thank you, Liz. He is home now. BP is still high and he is on tablets and a salt and fat free diet. More tests are coming.
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You’re welcome, Robbie. I hope the test will yield results that will support an effective treatment plan.
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Michael is a brave person going through all of that. I’m glad the health professionals figured out how to draw his blood. Wish they would have thought of that before all of that torture 😦
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Thank you, he was quite traumatized and we’ve had issues with having his blood taken before. Anyhow, at least they got the job done in the end.
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You’re welcome.
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Poor Michael! It’s amazing how often doctors can’t find a cause for medical issues. I wonder if they relied less on tests, and more on observing and listening to the patient if they might make better diagnoses.
But I hope he feels better soon. (K)
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Hi Kerfe, I didn’t like this doctor. She didn’t listen to me when I told her Michael has a history of high BP and she didn’t bother to find out his history. Luckily, his normal doctor is going to also do some tests. It could also be a result of his having had Covid.
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It’s hard to find a doctor who really pays attention these days. Here, it’s due to having to satisfy the insurance companies and make quick work of your patients so they can increase their profits.
Covid does seem to have a lot of after-affects, unfortunately. Good luck!
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Sorry to hear what Michael had gone through, Robbie! It must be a stressful experience for him. Has it happened to him before? I wonder if any doctors will eventually find out the cause of his hypertension. I suggest Michael would do self-monitoring and keep a journal or a simple spreadsheet. My former family doctor said I had a white-coat syndrome that caused my blood pressure to be higher when visiting the doctors.
I’ve had an allergic reaction to some unknown medications since 2018. I was hospitalized in 2018 and 2019. I’m in the 7th week of a third episode. No doctors found out what caused it. My new dermatologist had a blood test on me and had a biopsy today. He may not find out the cause either.
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HI Miriam, the current tests did not find anything but he needs to be tested for sleep apnea which can cause high BP. That is a distinct possibility given his history and I wish they had thought of that while we were in the hospital. It could also have been caused by Covid. My high BP is due to Covid. I am sorry you are also having issues. I hope the tests help find a cause. It is always a relief to know why.
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I realize Covid causes many issues. Are there any solutions? Do you feel unusually tired compared to before Covid? My BP was triggered by an issue 25 years ago. It never comes back to normal. I hope Michael feels better and has his hypertension under control. I hope you have a solution to your BP. Hugs.
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What a time you had Robbie it’s such a shame that your lovely trip was marred by the hospital trip that went ary. It’s such a shame that problems with taking Michaels blood were allowed to escalate to such an extent. (I have found this that techs, doctors and nurses will doggidly insist the can take the blood when the patients body is not playing ball! I have been there! )
I do hope Michael is on the mend and that a cause and solution are found for his problem.
Your poems are so honest and it probably helped you to feel better to get the words out and set out infront of you.
Your photos of doors and the harbour were stunning and your trip sounds as if it was a success.
I hope you are okay and that Michael is now on the mend 💜💜💜
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HI Willow, Michael was discharged yesterday but we still don’t have a diagnosis. He needs more tests as his BP is still up but he is now taking tablets. The radiologist who did the angiogram said the nurses had ‘ruined’ Michael’s vein which is why they couldn’t be used. Lots of fun!
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Robbie this is so difficult for you all and painful, physically and mentally.
I have to ask every time you children’s cannulas or at least the smallest they have as my veins are small…
They never listen. … I hope Michael improves at home
Do you think maybe they just messed him about so much his body went into shock 💜💜💜💜
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What a terrible end to what looks like a lovely get away. Sending healing thoughts to Michael.
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Thank you, Bernadette. Michael is home with pills and his blood pressure is still going up and down. They don’t know why yet, but at least his heart, kidneys and liver are fine.
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Praying the medical community will find a resolution to Michael’s problems.
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Hi Robbie, I’m not sure how to sum up this post…a slice of life I suppose.
The trip sounds fun. Thank you for sharing pictures of your visit.
Michael’s experience sounds terribly painful and tiresome. Praying he recovers soon and hoping the doctor’s find out what triggered the hypertension. The poor boy must be exhausted.
Your poems are touching. I’m glad you could pour out your stress in verses. Well done!
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HI Smitha, thanks, there was a lot going on when I wrote this. Michael needs more tests but he will have them from home at least, so that isn’t as bad. The hospital is such a tiring place.
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Hugs, Robbie! I hope Michael is feeling better and things are back to normal. Loved the doors! And the pics of the harbor! Have a lovely day!
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HI Traci, Michael is home and there are no issues with his heart, liver or kidneys. They think the high blood pressure is to do with sleep apnea because he can’t breath properly at night due to sinus issues and asthma. More tests coming but at least from home. Thank you for your kind message.
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I have both the high blood pressure and the sleep apnea also the sinus issues and asthma. I have to go in for a breathing test in July to see if I need meds. I already take meds for asthma and my sinus but this might be for my breathing. Glad the tests will be closer to home. That’s a comfort although I know no tests are fun. You’re welcome. Hugs.
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Hoping answers can be found quickly as well as healing!
It isnt’ fun when the answers keep hiding, sometimes in plain sight.
Not sure if I mentioned that I finally got the ‘blood bill’ straightened out. I’ll be getting more bloodwork in June… then maybe in December – Just to be sure all is clear the Doc says.
Lovely windows and doors. We took a walk in a small local town (we also stopped for an alfresco lunch)… last week. I did stop in some shops. But I didn’t buy anything – Still trying to empty out.
I’ve found a place that will take some of the teachy things I used to save for my DIL. But she changed jobs and doesn’t need them anymore.
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HI Jules, I am so happy you managed to sort the blood bill out. That is great news. I hope everything comes back clear, being prodded around by nurses and doctors isn’t much fun. I also don’t buy to much stuff. I only buy certain books and, of course, dolls which I collect.
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I have too many collections… but I am trying not to add to them, as well as gift or give away those things which really hold no value to me anymore.
Even with all the ‘decluttering’ I still have about a dozen book cases mostly filled with books!
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Oh… I have to go for more blood work next month and then maybe again in December.
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Hi Robbie,
I love your photos and doors, and it looks like a wonderful time. But what a nightmare for Michael. I’ve had vein issues too where they put the IV in my hand. Ouch, to say the least. So I sympathize with him and hope he’s on the mend soon. Your poems are powerful. Hugs
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Hi Lauren, I am sorry to know you also have vein issues. He is covered in bruises now. I’m glad you enjoyed the poems. Hugs.
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I love the African Trading Post. Poor Michael, he has really been through the ringer. I hope they find a root cause.
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Hi Jennie, I like that store too. I enjoy the harbour in its entirety. No root causes yet, but he will have some more tests as an outpatient (thank goodness).
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Yes, thank goodness!
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My goodness, Robbie, what a journey. On one hand, it was awe-inspiringly beautiful, but on the other Michael’s medical challenges. I’m hoping he’s feeling better now and also hope the doctors have identified the core issue. What a scare! 🤗
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Thank you, Gwen. No cause yet but he is at home and at school for the time being. We will get there. Cape Town is a beautiful place. I love it there.
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Poor Michael. I hope they find the main problem soon. Lovely pictures of your trip, Robbie.
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Thank you, Stevie, it was very nice.
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OMG! However, it sounds like Michael is okay.
The only thing I get from your Tankas is your deep love for Michael.
I’m with you. I adore stopping at little towns/places along the way.
One gets tastes of life.
The Cape Town harbour loos fab!
Thank you!
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Hi Resa, Michael is home and attending school. There will be more tests but he must write his exams first. We are managing with the tablets in the meantime. I love road trips and am looking forward to our July trip to see the hippos and marsh birds in St Lucia.
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Sounds good, Robbie! My best to Michael on his exams & everything else!
PS. My review post is scheduled for 3:00 am Toronto time, tomorrow morning, May 25.
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Thank you so much. Resa. I’ll look out for it. I am so delighted you appreciated Lion Scream.
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Sorry about Michael’s health… At least he’s out of the hospital…
Cape Town now? You could have paid a visit to my cousin John. He was born in Nairobi, but spent most of his life in CT.
And I was sorry to hear about your mother getting frailer. At least she made the trip. 👍🏻
Best wishes to all.
💕
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Thank you, Michael will have some more tests in late June when he is on holiday. He has exams coming up and we must just manage for a while. Cape Town is a marvelous city. I would like to move their in 2 years time. The climate will be much better for Michael too.
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Well, well, sounds like something to look forward to. I once asked my cousin why he stayed in Africa? (Half his kids are in England). He just sent me a photo of Table Mountain and said: “For that and Beauty”…) Perfectly understandable.
(May I invite you to see a film I just posted on my “African childhood”?) (I don’t normally “advertise” my posts on others’ blogs but I think you might relate…)
Totsiens
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I can understand that, Cape Town is a wonderful and beautiful city.
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PS, thanks so much for the link. A fabulous post. I’ve left you a comment there.
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Yes, thank you. I’ve seen it and saw that you can indeed relate…
Au revoir…
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What a nightmare, Robbie! You mentioned Michael being in hospital, but the whole thing was quite a trial, and I understand that it must be particularly frustrating when after all those tests and going through all that, there is nothing specific to explain the Hypertension. I hope things go back to normal and the next lot of tests are easier on you all. Great pictures and poems, though. Take care and give my regards to all the family.
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HI Olga, thank you for your lovely comment. Hugs.
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Ommigosh, Robbie, I’m so sorry to hear about this… have there been any further updates, or are you guys still waiting on further testing…?
Much love,
David
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HI David, the blood pressure piles are not working so we are going back to the hospital today. No answers yet. Thanks for asking. Hugs.
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sending you *love*
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Hi Robbie – I’m so sorry to read that Michael is having more troubles. What another ordeal. I hope he is feeling better.
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Thank you, Barbara, we see the doctor today.
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Sending positive vibes your way 🧡🧡🧡
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