This month, my Dark Origins post delves into the evolution of Valentine’s Day and the link between Geoffrey Chaucer and this celebration of love. Thanks for hosting, Kaye Lynne Booth.

Modern Valentine’s Day is celebrated as the day of lovers. People give each other chocolates and flowers as gifts and often do something special with their partner.
Valentine’s Day did not start off as the cutesy day filled with candy and cuddles we know, it’s origins were dark and bloody.
Lupercalia
The date of 14 February coincides with the ancient Roman festival of Lupercalia which was celebrated annually on the 15th of February. The aim of the festival was to purify Rome and promote health and fertility and certain rites or observances were undertaken to achieve this aim.
These rites took place in the Lupercal cave, the Palantine Hill (the centremost of the seven hills of Rome which has been called “the first nucleus of the Roman Empire”) and the Forum. All of these locations were central to Rome’s foundation myth about the founding of Rome and the earliest history…
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I read your response on the original post and I have to say that I have always made a big deal of any reason to celebrate love! ❤
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Yes, love is worth celebrating. My hubby doesn’t support the commercialism attached to this celebration but I always join in. I like to give a small gift to street people on Valentine’s Day.
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So many of our innocent cozy traditions have dark roots. Halloween… St. Patrick’s Day… Grimm’s Fairy Tales… I guess we wanted to make kids tough back in the day.
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HI Jacqui, I suppose life was also tougher back then and people died so much more easily. Living hand in hand with death seemed to make people very superstitious.
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That’s a good point.
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Another great posting, Robbie! Unbelievable how many links are to the past. Will head over to read the full posting! Thanks for your efforts on researching. Have a beautiful week!xx Michael
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Hi Michael, thank you for your appreciation of my research and stories.
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My pleasure, Robbie! Your research is fantastic, and hopefully could be read also in future books of you. Best wishes, Michael
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I always enjoy a look at our traditions – and superstitions as well!
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Thanks, John, they are interesting and often unexpected.
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And I thought it was the candy, greeting card and florist cartels foisting another “holiday” on us, forcing us to buy their wares and make reservations in overcrowded venues purveying overpriced food and negligible service🤣
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Isn’t it nice that it is so much more interesting than that, Phil. I don’t bother with the commercialism of the day other than to hand out chocolate bars to beggars on the street. I love this poem by Chaucer. I have to read modern versions of his work but Canterbury Tales really makes me laugh.
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Most, if not all religious holidays, from more than just Christianity can be traced back to Pagan roots. No fools the religion promoters. Hey, they’re used to partying on such and such a date? Great. Find us a Saint or a martyr or a rite to drop on the party calendar!
The same gruesome origins can be traced in most fairy tales and Fablios to make them more cautionary. Cinderella’s sisters cut their toes off trying to make the slipper fit.😳
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Hi Phil, I am aware of some of these dark origins for fairy tales and nursery rhymes. I am interested in researching them and that’s why I started this series of posts. Every month I research something new.
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Here ya go. Lit, Fairy tales AND feminism
https://digitalcommons.wayne.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=2171&context=oa_dissertations
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Thank you, Phil. Appreciated.
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Sounds just like our typical St Valentine’s Day. Why the fuss?
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Great research– ‘During Lupercalia, the men randomly chose a woman’s name from a jar to be coupled with them for the duration of the festival. Often, the couple stayed together until the following year’s festival. Some elected to remain together and married.’
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Oh. This looks interesting, Robbie. Heading over to read the rest. 🙂
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It is an interesting bit of information.
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I know a little about this, Robbie, but heading over to read more!
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I hope you learned something new, Barbara.
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Definitely!
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This is so interesting, Robbie, and I wasn’t aware of the dark origins of Valentine’s Day. I don’t delve deeply into them, but they seem to exist for just about every holiday. We’re not really into the commercialism of Valentine’s Day because we celebrate our anniversary in January. 🙂 And that’s why when I do blog posts, I implore everyone to think of those who are struggling, not just the romantic love. Thanks for the information. 🥰
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HI Lauren, I am glad you enjoyed this post. I found the link to Paganism fascinating. Our wedding anniversary is 9 February so we also don’t do much for Valentine. I always buy my mom flowers and my menfolk (daddy included) chocolates.
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It really does have a fascinating history. Wishing you and yours well, Robbie. Hugs
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It does make you think a bit. Thanks, Teagan.
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That was fascinating, Robbie.
Here I thought Valentine’s Day was fabricated by the greeting card industry.
Whatever, it means a day of love, to me. Thank you!
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Hi Resa, I am delighted you enjoyed this origin. It is interesting to know and doesn’t change the modern interpretation of a day of love.
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Agree! Thank you for the history!
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