It’s been a bad week. I ended up resigning from my job yesterday. It is time but its been a hard decision because there are a lot of people I like at the firm and I know they need me. This is my ninth and final resignation. But the cemeteries of the world are filled with indispensable people so the firm will go on. It will just be that much harder for the people I like and respect.
My week reflects in the poem I’ve written for d’Verse Open Link hosted by Bjorn. You can join in here: https://dversepoets.com/2026/02/12/open-link-401-and-february-live/
Vampirism
the more you give
the more some people take
attaching themselves
like starving leeches
gorging on your life blood
becoming fat and bloated
greed waxing into laziness
while you diminish
energy drained
passion destroyed
reduced to a breathing corpse
Then, they spit you out
moving on to exploit
the next high performer
W3
Svenja’s prompt: Haiga. You can join in here: https://skepticskaddish.com/2026/02/11/w3-prompt-198-weave-written-weekly/
The theme is “Let the overall theme reflect the long-awaited shift from winter to spring.”
South African weather is very different to Northern hemisphere weather. We get no rain for over six months during the winter period and as we exit winter, it gets incredibly hot and dry before the rains come in late October or early November.

My photograph is of a beautiful red rose after a rainstorm.
scorching sun
wilted flowers dream
of spring rain
Thursday Doors
For Dan’s Thursday Doors, I am sharing a video of a building I made in Brussels. The video shows a building with all the doors and windows. The fascinating aspect of this building is that its decorated with bicycles painted in the primary colours.
I am sharing this for my talented artist and dress designer blogging friend, Resa. You can find Resa’s amazing art blog here: https://graffitiluxandmurals.com/2025/01/04/skart/. This post by Resa, titled Skart, features some amazing skateboard art and a poem about skateboarding written by me.
If you felt drained and exploited by your job, it was certainly time to leave. Your poem expresses that distress vividly.
I hope things work out for the best, Robbie.
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Hi Audrey, thank you for your kind comment. It is time to walk away from a situation that has been progressively deteriorating for 7 years 🌞💛
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I’ve read lately that you’ve been disillusioned with your job, Robbie. I’m glad you took the plunge and resigned. The stress isnt worth it. I know, as talented as you are, you won’t have any trouble finding the job you are meant for. Best wishes my friend. Gorgeous pic of the flower, too. 🌸❤️
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Hi Terri, thank you. I was pleased with the Haiga. I agree about the stress at work, you can’t buy health once it’s damaged.
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Oh so sorry to hear about your job Robbie; but at the same glad to know you are taking a stand firmly.
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Thank you, Michelle. One door closes and another one opens 🧡
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I had an inkling this was on the cards I wish you well Robbie in your next adventure just take some time to draw a breath and recharge…Hugs xoxo
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Thank you, Carol. I tried to help as long as I could but I have reached the end. Onwards and upwards.
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Absolutely, Robbie life is for living I know we have to eat and pay bills but we also have to look after our own wellbeing…xx
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This might seem strange coming from someone largely a stranger, but I was sorry to read about your experience with work. Nine resignations speaks of something very seriously wrong and your metaphorically explicit poem reads as a damning indictment of the workplace and employer. In my experience leaving unsatisfying employment often leads to a new and positive lease of life both within the workplace and at home. Considering your literary skills I expect you will find a new job soon. I hope it delivers everything it should.
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Hi Sean, thank you for your kind comment. Yes, the promises are never delivered on so it’s time to accept the situation and move on. The quicker the better. Thankfully my notice period is only 1 month 💖
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The poems are beautiful and I guess the Vampirism poem reflects your experience at work. Sometimes it is better to resign than to remain in a situation that is unhealthy for you.
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Yes, that is exactly it. Work can’t change, they’ve made promises 8 times. I’ve now accepted I’m the one that must change 🙏🩵
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You were stressed out for so long, Robbie! It’s not worth it. Your health and well being are more important than your job. I also thought my job needed me until I had cancer and had no choice but taking 6 months off (I only needed one more year to retire). Then I knew “the world still goes on without me.” This is your ninth resignation and they always got you back. You must decided what you want for yourself. Take care!
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This is my final resignation, Miriam. Thank you for your kind advice. It’s time for me to change my working life. 💛
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So sorry about your resignation. Life can be such. We have to the right thing for our peace of mind. Hugs to you.
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Thank you, Bella. It’s okay, I have other options.
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Hi Robbie, Great news. You are so talented in everything you do. Success will always bless you. Much love bella
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Hugs
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Nine resignations is a bit crazy, Robbie. Sounds like you’re going to have to be hard-hearted for a while and take care of your own interests. Much easier for me to say than you to do, but I hope you see it through. Happy Valentine’s, hon xx
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Hi Jo, thank you. This resignation is fine. The previous ones were cries for help and I hoped things would work out and get better. This one is an acceptance that work can’t change so I have to 💗
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So sorry you experienced this, there are a lot of vampires in this world unfortunately…. sometimes we have to make the move if we can – make the shift – love your haiga 💞
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Yes, I am at peace with my decision. Thank you 🩷
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What fun to come across the bicycle building. The lovely holidays you have at least allowed you to step away from your busy work life and think what you should do. My daughter just changed jobs because it was so stressful with management above having no regard for their staff and piling more and more on them. Good luck and take sometime out!
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Yes, this is exactly what’s happened to me. I already have options but won’t make rushed decisions.
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Its important to be happy, and it sounds like you weren’t because you wouldn’t have resigned.
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HI Diana, yes, I resigned because I was overwhelmed and each time promises were made. Now I’ve realised those promises will never be kept and so this is my final resignation.
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I’m so sorry about your job and the stress it has caused you, Robbie! Nine resignations–wow. You gave them a chance. You’re health is more important. I’m sure you will find another job if and when you’re ready.
That rose is so beautiful, and I love the bicycle art!
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Hi Merril, I need some time to think about what I want to do. I can get another job but I don’t want more of the same. I need a bit of space to unwind and remember what it feels like to be relaxed and stress free. Thank you for your kind message.
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a big move, Robbie but you made it: honour to you. The powerful poem, appropriately called ‘Vampirism’ explains why; you will move onto something better —
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Hi John, yes, enough is enough. I have given enough of myself and allowed myself to be sweet talked into staying on with promises of changes. I’ve realised that those promises will never we met because they cannot be. There is no-one else who can do what I do so it will just continue being more of the same. Thanks for the supportive comment.
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Here’s to a break from the Vampires… blessed rains to relieve the dryness and loads of love surrounding you and those who mean the most to you!!!
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Annette, you always say just the right thing. Hugs. And Happy Valentine’s Day.
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Robbie, well done on taking the courage to leave a situation that was so negative and toxic. Your poem powerfully shows the absolute selfish and impossible environment to work but still it must be heartbreaking to leave behind colleagues and friendships formed over the years. Thinking of you and wishing you well. Take good care of yourself. Xx ❤️❤️
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HI Annika, it is hard to leave good people in the lurch but I must as it is destroying me. Thank you for your supportive comment.
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Your poem says it all. It’s hard when you’re not appreciated for the work you do by your employer and to leave on such a note is painful, Robbie. Those co-workers who hate to see you go will miss you but you have to take care of your own mental health and well-being. God bless you, Robbie. Sending lotsa love and hugs. 🤗 🥰❤️
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Hi Dora, thank you. I know my colleagues will miss me but leave I must. Thank you for your kind supportive comment.
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There is a lot to consider in leaving a position, but in the end it becomes a reboot for you. Retirement is not the end it a door that opens into your next great life! Wishing you the best Robbie!
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HI Dwight, thank you for your kind comment. I can find another job but I want to ensure it doesn’t end up more of the same. I saw on FB you’ve had some heart rate issues and it seems you’ve now been discharged from hospital. Look after yourself. Hugs.
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Yes, It was running up in the 140s for who knows how long. I had a cardioversion which shocked me back to normal rhythm. I seem to be doing well with a heart rate around 67. Amazing what thy can do.
Thanks for asking!
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I’m not on FB so didn’t know, Dwight, and am so glad you’re doing well now by God’s grace. 🙏❤️
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I love her post and the skateboard poem is wonderful, Robbie.
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Thank you, Dwight. Resa is such an amazing creative.
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Yes, I agree! You are welcome.
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I am really not a poet, but this resonated so hard with me. I got into a situation where I had to stick it out to gain my pension, but when I did, I had had enough of that place to last a lifetime. All the best to you.
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HI Craig, I have read through the lines of some of your previous posts and I knew you were ‘toughing’ it out to retirement. A number of people in the firm I work at are in that position. I am still young enough to move and do something else. I don’t think I’m ready to retire yet. Hugs.
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I hope you find a job that gives you contentment. It’s no fun being stuck in a job that you dread. Beautiful poetry, Robbie, and that bicycle door/building is so cool!
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HI Priscilla, I think the bicycle building is very cool. I am still young enough to move and do something else before I get trapped in the stick it out to retirement rut. That’s why I must do this now. Thank you.
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I’m sorry to hear it went that way, but I admire your decision and fortitude and your ethics.
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Thank you, Paul. Sometimes God leads us to make the right choice at the right time. Hugs.
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Love the bicycle decorations! Kudos on making the decision to take care of yourself Robbie by leaving a bad job.
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Thank you, Brad. It is time now. I am feeling relieved that its done and I will soon be free of this toxic environment.
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I look forward to seeing what is next for you.
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Do what you think is right about your job, Roberta. The poem says so much about bad people. The building in Brussels is very impressive. I hope you get some rain for your plants.
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HI Tim, thank you. I appreciate your comment. It rained all day yesterday and I was thrilled. I don’t like extreme heat and dryness. It makes you feel like a energy less husk.
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The lower hemisphere weather is almost opposite what it is up here. Warm weather sounds good to me right now. I don’t know if Valentine’s Day is observed there, but if it is I hope you have a happy one. 😍
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I know a few metaphorical ‘vampires’ who fit your poem perfectly.
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Yes, they exist in all work places and they know how to latch on to the high performers and manipulate them. I see it over and over.
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Dear Robbie, I’m sorry that things came to such a state that you had to resign. But judging from your poem, I think you’ll be better off away from these blood sucking vampires. Lots of hugs.
Love your photos and poem dear friend.
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Thank you so much, Sadje, for your kindness and understanding.
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I admire you – I am in a similar situation right now.
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It is a terrible place to be. Sending you love and the strength to make the right choices.
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Very sorry about your job situation, Robbie, but it sounds like you made the right decision. Being exploited/used/etc. is not a good thing. Your poem eloquently expressed your frustration.
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Hi Dave, I’ve stuck it out to my own detriment for 7 years now and I just can’t do it any more. I am relieved I’ve made the decision and I’m ready to open new doors and more on. Thank you.
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Hugs Robbie
Not an easy decision to make, but your poem reflects how the job was making you feel 😥
Wishing you happier days ahead 💖
Take care xo
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Thank you, Maggie. Abusive relationships come in different forms. I am walking away before my health is seriously impaired.
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Hi Robbie, I am very sorry you had to go through that. You are a wonderful person, and I know that you know you have many friends here. It was not an easy decision, but I am sure you did the right thing. Your friend always, Charles
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Thank you, Charles. I appreciate you. Hugs.
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Robbie, I can feel how hard this week has been for you. Your poetic words are profound. That slow draining when giving becomes unsustainable. No one can thrive where they are constantly diminished. It takes courage to recognize when a season has ended, even when there are people you care about on the other side of that decision. You are absolutely right. No one is truly indispensable, and sometimes the most responsible act is to step away before the well runs dry. I hope this shift opens space for renewal. Even in climates that feel dry and relentless before the rains come, something is already preparing beneath the surface. Wishing you strength as you move into whatever comes next.
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Hi Robbie, I’m not surprised that you resigned, as the frustration has been brewing with you for quite a while. I’m very sorry! You are so talented and wonderful; it’s a shame those at work just can’t see. Your poem speaks volumes! All the best to you! 😍
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Aww, thank you, Robbie! The shout out is such a honour.
This is a cool post.
Well, you did resign your job, and I hope that’s cool. Any time I resigned (or out and out quit) I was a happy camper. I was thrilled to get rid of the leeches and their blood sucking. I hope you feel that too, a sense of freedom.
HEY, I found more Skart! One day we can do SKART 2. Your poem can be about anything to do with motion, or I can reuse the old one. As soon as I see art on old skateboard pieces, there is no one else I can think of. It is such a unique comnnection.
LOVE the bicycle art. How fabulous. Dan must be thrilled with such a wonderful contribution. And how amazing that public art makes you think of me.
Okay, sending love, and support for your latest career move!
❦🕊 ~❤︎~ 🕊❦
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Best of luck with everything, Robbie.
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