Esther Chilton’s prompt for this week’s writing challenge is charge. You can join in here: https://estherchilton.co.uk/2025/09/10/writing-prompts-82/
Taking Charge
When I was a young girl, I often took charge at play time, and I was the ringleader of a variety of games at school. My games were always created with the best of intentions but boisterous games involving the entire class had a way of taking on a life of their own.
I clearly recall one game that involved splitting the class into two groups. One group had to hold hands tightly while members of the second group took turns running at the line and trying to force their way through the tightly clasped hands. Naturally, this was great fun, and everyone participated with enormous goodwill. The noise levels climbed along with injuries which didn’t make themselves felt until later when Sister Ruth, teacher of my class and an advocator of ladylike behaviour for girls and gentlemanliness for boys, entered the fray.
The end of break bell had run some minutes before and had gone unnoticed by the excited participants of the game. I’ve never forgotten Sister Ruth’s shout of horror when she rounded the corner of the building and found her class of six-year old’s in a state of near hysterical bedlam. Shoes, socks, and straw boaters lay in untidy piles, sashes were loose, and every child was red and disheveled. At the sound of Sister Ruth’s voice, a deathly silence fell over the gathering. Children quickly moved to put on their shoes and socks. A few, their bruises and bumps suddenly making themselves felt, burst into tears.
I got a dressing down of note and spent the rest of the day on my own in the naughty corner. My report included the phrase: ‘Robbie has the face of an angel, but she has black wings and a rusty halo.’ Naturally, that went down a treat at home.
naughty girl
lacking discipline,
self-control,
and smooth hair
Pollyanna look alike
preferred type of child
CFFC – hobbies
Dan’s challenge this week is continuation of last week’s hobbies. You can join in here: https://nofacilities.com/2025/09/15/photos-of-your-hobby-part-ii-cffc/
One of my hobbies is taking photographs of street art and other public art.






You sound like a girl after my own heart 💜💜
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I’m pleased to know that, Willow
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😁😁😁
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Oh Robbie you did make me laugh, I can just imagine it, I would’ve been there right with you 😂💞
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Yay for you, Suzanne. I have several older male cousins so I was a little toughie.
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You had such a an enthralling childhood. I could listen to your stories all day 😀
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Hi Violet, I did have a very free childhood. Very different from life for modern kids 😍
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We called that game Red Rover. Some children’s games are international, aren’t they.
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Yip, that was what we called that game too. It was very rough. It’s probably banned now 😆
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I never thought of it as rough. I always wanted to be picked to see if I could break through.
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We used to get a bit battered and bruised while playing this game. I also wanted to try to break through.
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I love street art and outdoor art exhibits too, Robbie. Your photos are wonderful. I enjoyed the mural artwork and the monumental memorial to Seafarers.
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Thank you, Suzette. We do have similar tastes in art and objects of photographic interests
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I know that game – it is scary for those who have weak arms. The other team always chose me and I always let go.
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Hi Rebecca, it is a rough game. I had older male cousins who I played with regularly. I was used to rough games.
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You are very brave!
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Or very stupid – haha!
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It’s fascinating that you took charge of games as a young girl, Robbie. Your photos of the street art are magnificent.
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Hi Tim, I always had lots of ideas and that’s why I ended up in charge. I’m pleased you like my photographs.
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Fun hobby and photos Robbie.
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Thanks, Brad 😍
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That’s quite a remembrance, Robbie! Kids… 🙂
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Hi Dave, I have a handful of very clear memories from this school. I wasn’t there for very long. About 18months and we moved.
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You still have the face of an angel Robbie 🤗
I can just imagine the fun !
Loved your photographs as always.
Thank you for sharing.
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I think it would be more appropriate to say I still have black wings and a rusty halo 🤣😂. I’m delighted you enjoyed this post 😍
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Robbie 😄😄😄
Always my friend 🥰
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Smile
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Robbie 😁
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I love your story about being in charge! Your drive has taken you far in life! Some things just need to be channeled and left to run!
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It is interesting, Dwight. A case of nature over nurture as I was brought up to be seen but not heard.
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It really is! You have long since past that point1 :>)
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😊
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That game you cooked up sounds familiar, only without all the mayhem that ensued with your version. 😉
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These games were passed down from one generation to another. I wonder if the current youngsters know them? These sort of entertainments seem to be lost now.
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Somehow, I don’t think the current youngsters play these games. Did you play Kick the Old Tin Can and Red Rover? I once had an entire book of these games. I don’t know what happened to it.
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The game I described was Red Rover or a variation of it. I don’t know the other game. We played hopscotch and a game with only nylon stockings tied together to make a loop. It was a step patterns game. We also had seasons of collecting marbles, writing paper and stickers.
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Oh, I remember now! “Red rover, red rover, let Robbie come over!” Your step patterns game sounds like our Chinese Jump Rope. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wovy3sFMhy8 I loved playing that game!
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Yes, it is this same game but we just used old nylons tied together for the rope.
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Very cool!
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😊
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Now I see you in a new light 🙂 Initially I jumped ahead in my thoughts at – ringleader – but then you settled into the happy state of school play, and then you surprised me and made me smile. But essentially this is the life of leaders and creatives.
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Hi Paul, I have always been an adventurer full of bright ideas. I often led friends and family into minor calamities with my bright ideas. Some teachers really developed me and others did not understand me.
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Ah, you’re speaking my language 🙂
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😍
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I’ve been in the naughty corner too but that they put ‘Robbie has the face of an angel, but she has black wings and a rusty halo.’ in the report just seems a bit ridiculous. Now you can laugh about it but that could not have been a good teacher. Your photos are great and the street art is amazing.
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Hi Thomas, some of my teachers developed my talents and some did not appreciate me at all. That is life. All of these teachers will have long since passed but I remember them well.
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I can certainly understand that you appreciate your helpful teachers. The backward ones are worth forgetting.
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Yes, teachers that give you great books are well worth remembering.
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Great photos as usual. I especially like the seafarer’s memorial.
You have led such an interesting life! Even as a six year old. And you also have a very good memory. (K)
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Thank you, Kefe. I have an unusual memory and it’s not always a blessing. It took me years and years to understand that other people don’t remember how I do.
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I read an article a few years ago about people who are rememberers and those who are forgetters. I am completely a forgetter. My girls tease me about it all the time. I realize now it’s because I have such a short attention span. You have a very focused attention, and I can see how that would not always be a blessing, but the opposite is also true.
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Yes, it would work both ways, but I do mull over things for a very long time because I can’t forget them and put them behind me.
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❤️❤️
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Oh Robbie…😄😄🫠🫠 you made my day 🫠
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Thank you, Michelle. Poor Sister Ruth didn’t know what to do with me. 😆
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🤭🤭🤭😄😄
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Your story made me smile, Robbie 🙂 Love all the pics too xo
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Thank you, Denise. 💝
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Haha who would have thought a school girl like me I was always in trouble I just put my hand out when I passed the heads door and see them standing there with the ruler..Both the ruler and the corner had my name on them …Of course my sisters were little angels…
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My sisters actually were angels. I also had a ruler to my hand during school. They don’t do that anymore and I wonder if the worlds the better for it. The problem with that sort of discipline is it gets abused, but the inverse happens when there is no discipline.
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Haha! Robbie, I could see this so vividly. Actually when I was about 10 years old, I got into some remarkably similar trouble. Six? You were a prodigy. 😀 Big hugs.
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HI Teagan, I never aimed at being ‘naughty’. I just had ideas to share. I am sure many of us have done this sort of thing in our youths.
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You were only having a bit of fun. You still have the face of an angel but we should beware of your black wings and rusty halo 😂 I think a lot of us can relate to getting into trouble like that. A really entertaining read, Robbie.
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Hi Esther, I’m really pleased you enjoyed this post. Thank you
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What a marvelous game you had invented. Loved your description and poem. 🥰😍😘
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Hi Sadje, I’m pleased you enjoyed this little piece.
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It was very entertaining 🥰
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💖
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Loved the story and the artwork.
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I’m pleased to know that, Craig. I hope you are well.
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Dear Roberta
We had to laugh out loud about your game experience. We hated games – all games.
Great pictures of public art 👍 👍
Thanks
The Fab Four of Cley
🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂
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I’m glad my post gave you a good laugh. I did like games when I was a girl. I enjoy the public art in Europe. We don’t have much locally.
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These are wonderful photos, Robbie, but the highlight of this post was the story of you girls in that school. Thanks for sharing that.
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HI Dan, I’m glad you enjoyed this post. Thank you.
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Wonderful photos, Robbie – especially that seafarer’s memorial.
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I liked that monument too 😊
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We used to call that game “Red Rover”. Dark wings, hey? Like a raven. The sister sounds a little hysterical. The couple on the mural reminded me of Archie and Veronica!
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Yes, it was called Red Rover and there was a rhyme we sang. On reflection, I don’t think some of the older nuns were suited to teaching young children. Some were very inflexible in their ideas. I think that mural is to men based on its location in the city but I’m not sure.
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It’s fun to read about your life, Robbie, and that comment in the report made me laugh. I wonder if it was intended to be funny. I may have led my little sister into things, but never a group of kids. I was a quiet bookworm and not very athletic or very much into those sorts of games.
I like seeing and photographing public art, too. 😊
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Hi Merril, I think the comment was serious in nature. Sister Ruth had very conservative ideas and probably thought I was destined for hell. We can’t all fit into round holes, unfortunately. I led my sister Catherine into a few scrapes too, but nothing overly serious.
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I suspected that Sister Ruth was unintentionally funny. How boring the world would be if everyone was the same! 😊
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I agree. I am never going to be the same as everyone else. I have tried and failed in the past. Now I don’t try.
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I’ve mostly heard a different drummer, as well. 😉
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😃💗
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Ha! The game you describe is one we used to play called “Red Rover.” We’d all join hands tightly, then say, “Red Rover, Red Rover, let Jimmy or Sue or whoever come over,” and that person would try to break throug the line. 🙂 Love the photos and the memory.
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Hi Jan, yes, that is the name of this game. I am pleased to know it was so international. I don’t think it’s played much locally now.
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black wings and rusty halo, eh? gee whiz – evil, were you? (I am giggling here)
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In the eyes of Sister Ruth, I needed to be contained and turned into Pollyanna. It still hasn’t happened but I do have fond memories of most of the nuns.
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Wonderful photos. I remember the Grand Place in Brussels very well. Such a beautiful place.
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Yes, it is beautiful. I enjoyed it very much.
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Hi Robbie, thank you so much for this wonderful post!
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I’m glad you like it 🍀
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Amazing shots! I especially like the one of the seafarers memorial in London.
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Hi Brenda, thank you. That memorial does seem to be a favourite.
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We played Red Rover, too. I loved it, bruises and dislocated shoulders and all. I was kind of disappointed to learn schools nowadays have banned the game.
You find the coolest things to capture on film. (Or rather, in pixels.) I think the memorial to the seafarers is especially wonderful.
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Of course modern schools have banned the game. They would ban living if they could. How can children even learn how to be adults if they are sheltered from everything that constitutes adulting.
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I enjoyed every bit of this post, Robbie, and that seafarer’s memorial is incredible. 💝
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Hi Lauren, that seafarer’s memorial is the popular choice. Thank you 🌝
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I can’t believe Sister Ruth’s terrible report about you! Shame on her; she could have said things in a very different way. I bet all the kids who were with you in the game remember it with smiles. Your photos are gorgeous!
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Hi Jennie. I had a variety of teachers. Some helped develop me and some didn’t appreciate my creativity and saw it as naughtiness. Sister Ruth was not one of my admirers.
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No, she was not.
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I couldn’t help laughing at the schoolyard antics and the Sister’s assessment of you! But you’ve always said that you have a rebellious streak in you! Delightful story and photos.
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Thanks, Dawn. I do have a rebellious streak. Another comment I got was that I practice silent insubordination 😱
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Hi, Robbie.
The game you describe here we call Red Rover.
Everyone stands in a line on either side as you describe. Then one team calls to the other, âRed Rover Red Rover, let (Insert name) come over.â If all one team could break through one at a time without being stopped they won.
If they got stopped they were put into the other team.
It was one game I could play with my class when I went to public school.
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