Nightcaps, a shadorma prose poem
This piece is written for Kay Castaneda’s Let’s go to the Museum challenge. You can join in here: https://bookplaces.blog/lets-go-to-the-museum-writing-challenge-number-one/

When I was a young girl, and my sister, Catherine, was a very small girl, I wanted to be Laura Ingalls Wilder. As Cath was my primary playmate, this meant that she got to be Carrie and play Little House on the Prairie everyday with me.
Mom made us both dresses with high waists and fairly long skirts. We both had a pair of ankle books. What we lacked were bonnets and nightcaps. I solved the bonnet problem by converting my mom’s pageboy evening caps into bonnets with ribbons to tie them on. The nightcaps were a bit beyond my ingenuity and the dress-up materials I had available.
And so I did a very naughty thing. I told Mom that I need two nightcaps for a school play. I procured some material (quite unsuitable as it comprised of four triangles and thus two pieces had to be joined with a seam down the middle to make a square) and prevailed upon my mother to make me the nightcaps. Mom did this although she complained about the poor quality and design of the material. I got my nightcaps but they filled me with guilt. I never derived any pleasure from those nightcaps and I hardly ever used them. It certainly taught me a life lesson.
Two nightcaps
Lovingly handsewn
By a mom
Who trusted
Me, naughty and devious
Paid a price in guilt
Pairs
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Is that a true story, Robbie?
Amazing photos! Wow!
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Yes, it is. I’ve never told her 💗. We are going to the bush in two weeks. I’m counting down 🌹
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Interesting!
I didn’t read the books or watch the TV show, but I certainly know of them.
Enjoy your trip!
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Thank you, Merril. The Little House series is still a favourite and I have them all.
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You’re welcome, Robbie. 😊
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Beautiful pictures. You must get really close to get them. Wow. Amazing.
And the story. Wow. All that for head gear. Very very interesting story. Thanks for sharing, Robbie. Bless you b
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Hi Selma, I often think of my lovely childhood. How lucky we were despite not having much money as a family. Yes, we do get quite close to the animals.
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I think of my childhood too 🤔 fun time.
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Yes, no responsibilities and lots of holidays
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Great photos, Robbie. As a kid I too always wanted to be Laura Ingalls Wilder, and also Nancy Drew. They always had much more fun than I did!
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HI Stevie, isn’t that interesting. I always like The Three Investigators and The Hardy Boys better than Nancy Drew. I was rather remorseful that I was a girl.
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I think as kids we all did a few things we felt guilty about later. I told my mom years later and she said it was all right and that she had done a few things like that when she was a girl. Moms are so forgiving. Your animal photos are amazing.
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HI DArlene, I know my mom wouldn’t mind now but she would have at the time. My sisters were very small then and she had a heap on her plate. I am always lucky with my photographs.
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I am sure you have served enough penance for the “sin” of the nightcap creation… ❤ Your poetry and photos, are remarkable and remind of what an amazing world we live in.
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Yes, I am sure I have served my penance. I often think of my lovely childhood. What good times we had. I am lucky to see animals in their natural habitat.
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Clever, clever!
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Love the photos – including you making an appearance. The elephants pic catches my eye – but the lions don’t seem to be happy with your untimely presence. Amazing the lessons learned as kids that we carry with us in life. Although I never played Little House on the Prairie, I had a crush on Melissa Gilbert.
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HI Frank, everyone knows Little House even if they didn’t watch it. The lions roared, nothing to do with us I can assure you. Do you know lions’ mate 50 times in 48 hours. It’s to ensure paternity by the dominant male.
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Oh, Robbie, I love your photos so much. And I love your LHOTP story, too! xo
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HI Kymber, I’m glad you enjoyed the pictures. LHOTP was also a favourite book series. I was a big, big reader.
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If you felt guilt above those nightcaps, your parents raised you right! I love the cheetah cubs and the elephants.
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Hi LIz, I did feel guilt and I realised how naughty I was more as I got older. Poor mom had two small children to look after at the time. I love cheetahs and elephants.
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How kind of your mother to make you and your sister Little House on the Prairie dresses. I bet you had a great time. I understand why you didn’t enjoy the bonnets. Guilt can do a number on us!
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HI Priscilla, it is funny how that incident sticks out in my mind. My mom was always very good about supporting my fantasies. She made me a red devil outfit too. My Granny Joan was also a marvel.
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Oh Roberta, of all the things to carry guilt about, lol. You were a child of great imagination and ingenuity is how I read it.
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HI VJ, it was very naughty of me. I still feel twinges of guilt about this. I was very imaginative, and mom always helped. She made me a red devil outfit and a fairy outfit, a Native American princess outfit and even a horse out of a broom stick.
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I’m sure she lived vicariously through your exploits.
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That’s a nice way of thinking about it.
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Sometimes we are convinced of being very shrewed, Roberta, but learn the lesson later! Thank you also for the picture of two lions mating!
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HI Martina, the mating was a rather unusual sighting and I got amazing shots. Yes, I learned a hard lesson and never did something like that again. Instead, I learned how to sew my own creations. My sisters still remember the dresses I made for us.
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Great, Roberta, I love your answers🌹
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Thank you, Martina
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Great poetry, Roberta, clearly depicting acts of youth that cause guilt in one. The pictures of those magnificent animals are fantastic!
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Thank you, Tim. It sounds like a funny thing to feel bad about but I still do. I made work for poor mom.
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Yes, you’re sensitive. ❤
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Guilt is a great motivator! Love the shots Robbie!
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I thought you would like the pictures, Wayne. I shared the one of TC and me for you. I am a person of great emotion whether it be love or guilt.
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have fun on your next outing!
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I am hoping to get pictures of a marabou stork when we go to Pilanesberg . Only 2 weeks to go ⭐️💚
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Thank you
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Beautiful poetry and photos as well…life adventures with the ones you love!
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Thank you, John. We are going to Pilanesberg Game Reserve soon. I want to bird watch.
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Those are some amazing wildlife pictures ✨
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Thank you.
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A poignant story and hard lesson learned. Thank you for sharing and the photos are outstanding!
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HI Jan, it is amazing how telling a story like that smites your conscience. I’m glad you like the pictures.
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Well done, Robbie. Hugs.
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Thank you, Teagan.
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Did your mum ever figure out the deceit? It’s amazing how much we don’t sew anymore these days -at least, not me.
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No, she didn’t. I tried to chat to her about it a several years ago but she didn’t remember the nightcaps at all. I don’t sew anymore either.
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What a wonderful connection between you and your mother and sister. Lovely!!!
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Hi Rebecca, yes, Cath and I did a lot of things together. Hayley and Laura joined us when they were a bit older.
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love the tale of naughtiness: we used to watch ‘Little House on the Prairie’ with the kids; I loved it ! love that yawning cheetah 🙂
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Hi John, it was a popular show. That cheetah picture is one of my top performing photographs on Unsplash. My photos are available for free download there. My small bit to help students.
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keep that cheetah on the payroll 🙂
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😂
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Hi, Robbie ‘ Your night cap story brought back fond memories as when I was young, my older sister had done something similar. To my knowledge, my mom never found out. I was only involved as an unfortunate witness.
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Hi Donna, I suppose telling lies to get what you want as a child is not unusual. Hopefully, the guilt is also common 😊. I tried to speak to my mom about it once, but she didn’t remember making the night caps so it was to no avail.
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I think we all have memories like that of things we wish we didn’t do as kids.
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Hi Andrew, I am sure that is the case. I did some other naughty things too. 🙏😊
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The Little House on the Prairie story was funny. We all do things as kids that may not be perfect behavior. The photos are amazing. Thank you for the enjoyable post.
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Hi Thomas, I’m glad you enjoyed my combo post 🌺
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Beautiful photos, Robbie. Seeing them in nature is very special. Thanks for sharing your photos. The poem is also special. Guilt is a powerful force.
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Hi Dan, it is and I tend to experience all emotions very powerfully 💚. I am delighted readers like my pictures. The animals fill me with joy.
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That comes through in your writing.
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A hard but important lesson to learn. Deception is never worth it in the end.
And wonderful photos! As Dan said, seeing animals in their natural environment is very different than seeing them in a zoo.
Also, thanks for the link to the challenge. I used to do Visual Verse once a month, but since they closed, I’ve been looking for another art-inspired prompt. (K)
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Hi Kerfe, I suppose some people never learn this lesson. It probably depends on your nature and upbringing.i loved the picture and hope Kay will do one monthly.
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I love your story Robbie. Yes, guilt is it’s own punishment. I love your pictures, even the voyeur one. 😆 Enjoy your upcoming trip.
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Hi Carla, I did wonder if I should post the lions but it is such an unusual picture I decided I would 💕
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I actually thought it was something I would never see and so beautiful in nature. I’m glad you did, Robbie.
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Thank you, Carla.
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Your photos are always so awesome.
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Thank you, Sadje. I am always lucky with photographs. I am also very patient.
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That’s a really awesome trait.
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😊
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😍
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I know how much you adore Little House on the Prairie and Laura Ingalls Wilder. You are such a good person, Robbie, no wonder you felt guilty using those nightcaps your mother made. I love all your pairs!
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Hi Jennie, thank you. I tried to speak to her about those nightcaps several years ago. She didn’t remember them at all.
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My goodness! 😀
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Hi Robbie – your childhood guilt is so well-described. I think we can all relate to those experiences. My youngest son and I read all the Little House books together. It took a few years to get through them – we read all the offshoots as well as the originals. How fun that you and your sister pretended to be the Ingalls girls.
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Hi Barbara, I was always pretending to be someone. I went through a stage where my friend and I were the wives of the two men from Battle Star Galactica. We event had a wedding ceremony. I made us walkie talkies out of fruit juice boxes and we used the straws as ariels.
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what a sweet relaxed photo of you & what charming hair barrettes. you’ve captured perfectly that age we must all have in childhood when we learn to lie — & the price of lying. shudders but so valuable… & also the lesson of letting things slide at some point, that we’re all wonderfully & pitifully human
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Hi da-AL, thank you. I’m growing out another fringe mistake, hence the clips. When I brought the nightcaps up with mom several years ago, she couldn’t remember them.
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Figures 😝
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Your assortments are always delightful, with your stories, poems, and photos 🙂 And that recollection of you asking your mom for the nightcaps… I can relate how feelings of guilt can stay with us.
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Hi Dave, yes, guilt is a terrible feeling.im glad you enjoy my combo posts. I enjoy creating them 😊
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WOW. I so adore your pairs. I think my favorite is the elephants in water 😀 :D I’m thrilled you are joining in the fun 😀
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My pleasure, Cee. 💚
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A totally cool story, Robbie. Thank you!
Egads, your pics are wonderful. The animals are gorgeous!
Amazing.
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I love that you enjoy my photographs.
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I loved LHOTP both the book and the movie. Mom and I watched every episode together, I think. Laura Ingalls Wilder visited Mom’s grade school once. She was enamoured, as we all were. This post sent me down a rabbit hole reading comments about LHOTP on Google and on your blog. No wonder I don’t get to very many blogs to read each day! LOL
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I also go down rabbit holes. LHOTP is still one of my favourite children’s books series.
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I think we all do. It’s amazing we get anything done, LOL Long live rabbit holes.
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Great poem and photos, Robbie. 🧡
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Thank you
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My pleasure.
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There are so many lovely things in this post, Robbie — from the gorgeous painting (the play of light and shadow is breathtaking), to your memory (I always pretended scenarios for myself that were “back in the days of long dresses”), to the terrific photos (the one of you and your husband is wonderful) to your very apt poem. Big hugs.
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Hi Teagan, I’m glad you enjoyed this post. I also love the painting.
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i love your poem Robbie and your memory of not really naughtiness more over enthusiasm…. But you leaned a life lesson a valuable one.
your photos of pairs are as always marvelous 💜💜💜💜
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Great story, Robbie! And fantastic wildlife photos.
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Thank you, I’m delighted to know that
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