My photographs for Dan’s Thursday Doors are of the doors leading on to the private pool area at Madikwe Hills. On our first morning, I saw these cute dassies drinking out of our plunge pool – so adorable! And such a privilege. You can join in Dan’s challenge here: https://nofacilities.com/2023/11/02/ellington-turn-around/




Next up is Cee’s CFFC: Sticks and stones challenge. You can join in here: https://ceenphotography.com/2023/10/31/cffc-sticks-and-stones/




I got these amazing pictures of a cheetah on a huge rock surveying the area for a potential meal. Lucky! Lucky! Lucky!
Lastly, I got this stunning night-time picture of a warthog in an aardvark hole.

W3 Prompt #79
This is the prompt provided by Ms. D:
Deanna’s prompt guidelines
- Write a “Septolet” that refers to something that is held, something that one might hold.
Septolet?
The Septolet is a poem consisting of exactly seven lines containing exactly fourteen words with a break anywhere in between the two verses. Both verses deal with the same thought and create a picture.
Hold my hand
By way of background, Michael has had a better year than last year’s disaster. BUT … there are still problems and he’s been sick with sinus infections three times and had a hospitalisation due to cortisone induced high blood pressure. Subsequent to that interlude, he has lost 20 kilograms on a new low sodium diet and is on BP pills. It has helped and he is less tired and sluggish.
A few weeks ago when he had the latest sinus infection, 6 weeks on the heels of the previous one, the ENT doctor did another CT scan and discovered that his deformed left upper sinus is completely blocked by scar tissue and cannot drain. The short summary is that he is having more unavoidable surgery on Tuesday, 5 December. We are trying to manage the pressure headaches over the next few weeks while he writes year end examinations with pain killers.
This poem is about this surgery:
His eyes
Hold fear
As do mine
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“Son
Take my hand
Squeeze it
Tightly”
You can join in W3 Prompt #79 here: https://skepticskaddish.com/2023/11/01/w3-prompt-79-weave-written-weekly/
Roberta, thinking of you and Michael. I hope all goes well and a happy Christmas time will follow.
Your photos today are incredible.
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Thank you, Patricia. I certainly hope that all goes well. Because of past operative failures it is a little hard but I really try hard to believe the outcome will be good.
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Such wonderful photos Robbie as you say such a privilege nature is amazing!
I am sorry Michael is still having such awful Healy problems…
I feel for you both and the rest of the family as it effects you all. Your poem really moved me as a mother ….it’s perfect 💜💜
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HI Willow, I wasn’t planning on writing such a sad poem, but that is what the muse brought so I went with it. There are always swings and roundabouts in life and I like to grab happiness when and where it presents itself. Hugs.
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Yes indeed Robbie and we must. Sending you all our love and support 💜💜💜
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Love these photos Roberta.
A very touching poem.
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Thank you, Sadje. The poem is what came so I went with it.
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You’re welcome ☺️
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I am sorry to read about your son, Robbie. 💙
The photos are amazing. I had to look up dassie, and I discovered they’re close relatives of elephants! (And that private pool area is gorgeous.) I love the cheetah photos and the warthog–wow!
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HI Merril, we had such amazing good luck on this trip with sightings. The dassies are adorable and it is rather a strange thing that they are related to elephants.
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You’re welcome, Robbie.
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Sinus problems are a nightmare, Robbie. Hopefully, they can be fixed successfully!
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Hi ladies, this is their 23 attempt at a surgical fix so I really hope so. Thank you.
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Robbie – I’m so sorry to hear about Michael’s condition… what, if I may ask, is wrong with his sinuses? 23 surgeries seems… nearly beyond believable to me!
Much love to you both,
David
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Hello David, Michael was born with no drainage for his sinuses and very narrow nasal passages. He nearly died twice as a baby. He also has chronic asthma. The doctors finally worked out the problem when he was six but, by then, repeat infections had resulted in a superbug and a biofilm in his sinuses. These collectively caused an autoimmune reaction so his sinus cavities became catacombs of cartilage. The infections also stopped his upper sinuses from developing so he has none on the right hand side and a small deformed one on the left. We are making progress as the doctors have more or less worked out all the issues. It’s taken 17 years though.
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Holy shamoley 🤯
Thanks for sharing, Robbie
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Hi, Robbie ❤
Just wanna let you know that this week's W3, hosted by the incredible Melissa Lemay, is now live!
Enjoy 🙂
Much love,
David
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Thank you, David.
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Hi, Robbie!
Just wanna let you know that this week’s W3, hosted by the lovely Jennifer Russo, is now live:
Enjoy ❤
Much love,
David
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Thank you, David.
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🤗
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I have a dodgy sinus, so I know how miserably painful this can be. I find steam breathing helps me a lot…
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Thank you, Michael does steam when he is congested and it does help. I am sorry you are also a sinus sufferer.
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Nothing like your poor Michael though… I hope he finds relief soon, Robbie….
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Thank you.
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It’s a lovely collection of images. The cheetah seems so proud – and the warthog made me laugh. More importantly, thoughts and prayers for your son with his health issues. Your poem captured a sense of his and your emotions. Be strong!
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Thank you, Frank. Maybe we’ll be really lucky and this will be the last operation. I am always optimistic.
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This one started off pretty cute and ended with a lot of tension. I hope your son can get some long-term relief from the surgery.
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HI Craig, I suppose it did go that way. Operations have become a bit of a norm around here so its business as usual until the day. The headaches are a bit nasty though.
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So sorry to hear Michael needs another surgery. But it’s great he lost so much weight. I’m sure he does feel better. Dassies are cute. We don’t have them in the States.
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Thanks, Vera. Michael’s diet is very strict and he is sticking to it because he is scared. He knows high BP is very serious. I am proud of him for being so good about it.
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Good to hear Robert is doing better. Be well both of you.
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Thank you, John.
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Great photos, Robbie, and those dassies ARE incredibly cute!
So sorry about Michael’s continuing medical issues. He — and you and your family — desperately need a break from that. Hoping 2024 will be a much better year for Michael’s health.
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Hi Dave, I thought of you and Rebecca when I posted these pictures. I thought you would like them – smile! Thank you for your kind comment about Michael. I live in endless hope for a final success. Thank goodness I am an optimist and believe it will all come right eventually.
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Incredible photos! Hope all goes well with the surgery.
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Thank you, I appreciate your kind comment.
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Welcome
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I’m sorry Michael requires another surgery. I’ll keep him and your family in my prayers.
I had to look up what a “dassie” is. 😀 Your photos are amazing!
I meant to leave this in a comment you left on my site, but I have been under the weather and haven’t gotten to comments just yet. I thought it would be rude to postpone it any longer. I wanted to thank you from the bottom of my heart for your kind donation. xoxo
I hope Michael doesn’t suffer while you wait, and I hope your weekend is good. xo
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Oh! Silly me! I also meant to say how much your poem touched my heart.
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Hi Kymber, thank you for your supportive comment about Michael. The end must come sometime and hopefully, this one will be it. The donation is my pleasure. I just happened to see it in the sidebar. Hugs.
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I am not familiar with dassies but they look a bit like a Canadian gopher or a prairie dog. They are cute. I’m sorry to hear about Michael’s ongoing health issues and pray he sails through the operation. The poem is perfect. xo
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Thank you, dear Darlene, for your kind comment about Michael. I have heard of prairie dogs, I think they were mentioned in the Little House books by Laura Ingalls Wilder. They are cute little things but will bite if provoked.
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The dassies are adorable, and you got some great photos. The Cheetah is magnificent, and you captured him at his best! I hope Michael gets through the school process prior to the operation. I hope that goes well. He has certainly endured much. I hope he catches a break soon.
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HI Dan, thank you, I am really hoping this will be the last operation. I thought you would enjoy these pictures. The dassies through the door were a great Thursday Doors photograph opportunity.
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Your pictures are remarkable! And I extend my hand to the chain of so many of us around the world who lend loving support to you, Michael, and the rest of the family. Hang on to us and you will never go through this alone! ❤
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Hi Annette, you have the most remarkable way of making things seem so much better. I appreciate you. Huge hugs.
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Robbie, your poetry at the end breaks my heart. This must be so tough on you, Michael, and your family. Stay strong. I’ll send lots of healing prayers Michael’s way. You took some amazing photos. I love seeing the animals! 🩵
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Hi Colleen, thank you very much. I appreciate your kindness. We were so lucky with our sightings on this trip. I have more pictures to share. I will be sharing my poems for Tanka Tuesday tomorrow. I keep writing more.
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Wonderful photos. I hope Michael gets better. 💛
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Thank you, dear Chris. Hugs.
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Oh, no. I’m sorry to hear that Michael is facing yet another surgery. The septolet is the perfect form for your expression of maternal love.
You’ve outdone yourself in the photography department with today’s group. The sticks and stone dassie takes the prize, of course. What an incredible shot!
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Hi Liz, thank you for your kind words. It is enough now! We had such incredible good photography luck on this last trip. I have many more pictures to share. The dassies are very cute. I was in the dassie group when I was a Brownie many moons ago.
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You’re welcome, Robbie. The dassies look like prairie dogs, only plumper.
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Hi Liz, someone else said that. I only know prairie dogs from Little House on the Prairie.
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I’ve only seen them in photos and in zoos.
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Robbie, I agree with Liz about the photos, they’re among your best. I’m not familiar with dassies. They don’t look like a critter that could climb trees — which made that photo very fun.
Your poem is touching. Blast it all, just when you could see a light at the end of the tunnel — or sinus cavity… I’m so sorry to hear the news about Michael. I know that among all the other emotions you both are utterly exhausted from it. Sending a huge hug. ❤
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Hi TEagan, thank you for your kind comments about Michael. It is very hard, but we keep moving forward. Hugs. I’m delighted you like my pictures. I have a good camera now (well, 15x zoom which works for me) and we had the luck of the devil on this last trip.
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I love the idea of nature in the form of dassies arriving in your backyard. We get ducks in our pool, not much else. Yikes to Michael and his ongoing health issues. I bet you’re so proud of him keeping on despite it, with his learning and testing and more.
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Hi Jacqui, I’ve never seen dassies before so it was very lucky. Terence was working and I was sitting on my bed when they came. I took a video but his work conversation is in the background so I deleted it off YT.
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Great photos, Robbie. The dassies are sure cute. The warthog is impressive and the cheetah is magnificent.
The poem touches my heart, as does Michael’s condition. My best to you and yours, Robbie.
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Hi Tim, thank you very much for your kindness. We were so lucky with our sightings on this trip. The warthog picture was so fortunate as we were driving back in the dark and the guide picked him up with the spotlight. I’m the only person who got a picture.
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The photos of the Cheetas are stunning! And the poem expresses so much!
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HI Jan, each operation gets a little harder, but I am optimistic this one will be the last. I hope you are doing much better now. Hugs.
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I’m sorry to hear about Michael. Sending prayers.
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Thank you, Andrew. Your prayers are much appreciated. Hugs.
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You’re welcome, Robbie.
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The photos are amazing. I am so sorry about Michael’s suffering. I wish him the best with his surgery and the best of health.
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Hi Thomas, thank you for your kind words. I’m delighted you enjoyed these pictures.
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I’m so sorry Michael has to suffer through yet more pain and more surgery. I hope all goes well. Your poem expresses the maternal bond beautifully. Sending my best to both of you.
The dassies look like giant hamsters. And the cheetah is truly magnificent. (K)
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Hi Kerfe, thank you for your kind words. The dassies are cute little things but I wouldn’t provoke them as they will bite. Seeing the cheetah on the rock like this was amazing.
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This is perhaps the most powerful poem you have written. It certainly gave my throat a big lump. Best to Michael. I have never heard of a dassie. They are so cute! Your cheetah and warthog photos are excellent. Lucky you to capture these.
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Hi Jennie, I hadn’t intended to write a sad poem for this prompt, but this is what came. The operations are harder to face these days because of past disasters, but Michael’s doctor is well prepared for the challenges. I’m so pleased you liked these lucky shots. We were very fortunate.
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It flowed beautifully, Robbie. Thank goodness for his doctor. Keep those poems and photos coming! 🙂
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Thank you 🦋🩵
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You’re welcome!
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Sorry to hear Michael continues to suffer different illnesses, Robbie! As parents, how much we want to take over their pain, if we could! Michael’s courage to face the fear is because of your love and your care. You’re always there for him. Holding your hand soothed his pain. That’s all you can do, Robbie. Be there for him. I hope Michael will get better and have a stronger immune system.
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HI Miriam, thank you for your kind words. It does feel a bit like a never ending story, but this might be the last one. I am hopeful.
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I hope so also, Robbie! Is his exam coming up?
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Hi Miriam, Michael is currently writing exams which is why the surgery is only on 5 December. Now would be better but he didn’t write exams last year so I am trying to hold out for the next two weeks so he can finish writing.
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I remember you mentioned it, Robbie! I just can’t remember the exact dates. I hope he can finish his exam with no complications. 🙏🙏🙏💖😍
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Robbie, thank you for this beautiful and meaningful post. It wasn’t lost on me that you continue to use gratitude when looking at the world.
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HI Bernadette, thank you for your kind words. I believe that is true. I’ve never really think about it, but I’ve always believed that happiness is found outside the self and through bringing joy to others and finding pleasure in nature and family.
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I’d never heard of a dassie before. You sure got some great photos and memories.
So sorry to hear of further troubles for Michael. He’s lucky to have such a loving and supportive mother. Your septolet shows the story; when we have fear we hold one another to let it go.
Hold on, this surgery will get him feeling well.
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Thank you, D. 🤗🙏🦋
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I love starting my day with your photography and poetry. They are both so thought-provoking. I needed to look carefully for the tongue sticking out! 🙂
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Hi Donna, I’m delighted you enjoy my photos
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What a cool take on this challenge. Love your photos 😀 😀
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Thank you, Cee. Such lucky shots … and a patient guide.
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Wonderful.
I hope Michael will get better.
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Thank you 🙏
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That warthog picture is amazing!
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Thank you, it was a very lucky shot.
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Hi Robbie, to begin with, I had to google a dassie. 🙂 Now I know what they are, and in English, they’re called rock hyrax. It’s good to learn something new. Your photos are incredible as always, and that cheetah is gorgeous. That poetry form is also new to me, but your poem is so heartbreaking. The fear is palpable. I hope all goes smoothly for Michael in December and will keep him and you all in my thoughts. Hugs xo
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Hi Lauren, I’ve never heard the English name for a dassie. Some words we use here are from Afrikaans and I don’t always know the English version.I’ll be glad when this operation is behind us 💗🌸
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🩷🩷
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my heart goes out to you, dear Robbie – wishing you & yours the very best
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Thank you, da-AL. It will be over soon, hopefully with a good outcome.
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♥️
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I hope the surgery for Michael is successful. I enjoyed looking at your photos – I have never heard of ‘dassies’. Are they related to the otter family?
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In English, a dassie is called a rock hyrax. Interestingly, their closest relative is the African elephant.
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Such beautiful photos Robie..sending my thoughts and prayers for Michael.🙏❤️
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Thank you, Michelle
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Oh Robbie, sorry to hear about Michael. Pray all goes well.
You are amazing Carrying on.
Great photos. The dassies are too cute.
Your poem, heartfelt.
Mum has got some weird illness, been antibiotics and steroids. Sinus and asthma. She says she is getting better. It weird. It been on going since 20th Oct.
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Hi Bella, I am so sorry to hear this. Sick family members are a heavy load to bear. Sending her healing thoughts and you hugs.
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Sending you healing thoughts n hugs too
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gorgeous photos — and a beautiful poem : I will put your son on the prayer list this morning
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Thank you, John. That is very kind of you 🙏
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Prayers for you and Michael.🙏🏻❤️
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Thank you, Melissa
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I’m sorry Michael is going through this and hope the surgery will help. I also wonder if heat or cold compresses help the pain at all. Healing prayers going out for Michael’s healing and your peace and comfort. Adorable animals.
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Hi JoAnna. Thank you, that is a good idea. I’ll try a cold compress. It’s far to hot for a warm one.
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Good grief.
Best to Michael… and you Robbie!
What a heartbreak, yet, he is writing exams. Bravo!!!
The 3 cheetah shots are fantastic. May they bring you the food fortune I feel they hold!
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