Esther’s challenge this week is to write a poem or prose piece using the word kind. You can join in here: https://estherchilton.co.uk/2025/08/13/writing-prompts-78/
Act of Kindness (shadorma prose)
When I was eight, my sister, Catherine, was four, and Hayley and Laura were fifteen months and six weeks old, respectively, my family moved to a small coastal village called Fish Hoek in the Western Cape. Our cottage was a temporary furnished rental for a period of three months while the partly built house my parents purchased was finished.
Mom was busy all day long with the babies, so Catherine and I walked to the beach on our own. Our route took us through the town and past the local grocery store. Catherine and I had been taught to be kind and helpful to others, especially elderly people. I had also been a Brownie for a few months before my family relocated from Johannesburg. Helping others was an important part of the Brownies Association’s ethos.
During one of our walks through the town, we happened to see an elderly lady struggling to carry heavy shopping bags. In those days the bags were made of brown paper and the bottoms had to be supported or they broke. Naturally, I immediately seized this opportunity to be a good Brownie and rushed over with an offer to carry the old lady’s bags for her. She accepted gratefully, and I carried the two heavy bags to her flat a few streets away. Her apartment block had stairs and no lift, which necessitated my carrying the bags up four long flights of stairs before we finally reached the door to her flat. I remember my arms aching from carrying those bags with the bottom one cradled in both my arms and the second laid on top of it. It was most uncomfortable.
The lady was pleased and invited us in for a cup of tea. This was the beginning of a lovely friendship. Once a week, Cath and I would visit this old lady and have a cup of tea with her. She always provided a delicious spread of homemade biscuits. She loved to crochet and showed me some beautiful pin cushions she’d made. I admired them so much she gifted me one on the day of our last visit before moving to our new home. I kept that pin cushion, bright green with white edging, for years and years.
I have often wondered over the years what happened to her. I hope she was happy and managed to get her groceries home without incident. I have no idea how she would have carried them up the stairs.
impulsive
small act of kindness
brightened life
of widow
living far from family
aging in quiet solitude
CFFC
Dan’s CFFC challenge this week is afternoon. You can join in here: https://nofacilities.com/2025/08/18/time-of-day-evening-cffc/.
All the photographs below were taken in the afternoon. The first three are London scenes from the balcony of our hotel room near Westminster Bridge and the street art consists of photographs of construction walling street art taken in Bruxelles, Belgium. These pictures all relate to one length of construction walling.














Wow. Amazing story of kindness. 🙂
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Thank you, Andrew
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You’re welcome, Robbie.
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It was wonderful that you helped that old lady, Robbie, and your poem speaks of it beautifully. The photos of your travels are fantastic.
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I’m glad you enjoyed this post, Tim 💙
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I am too, Robbie. 😊
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Oh! Robbie what a wonderful story from your childhood you two must of been like two angels heaven sent …to help the lady.
I loved the photos too, My hubby used to have to walk over Waterloo bridge every day and evening when he worked in London…infact his old office is now a hotel.
The street are is absolutely stunning 💜💜💜
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Hi Willow, it was interesting that this memory suddenly came forward when I saw this prompt. I did enjoy London but it was to busy for me in July.
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Yes you certainly did and that’s good it keeps you young and healthy being busy 💜💜
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Yes, it does
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Love the street graffiti. We saw a lot of fun and artistic graffiti in Sydney, Australia. Kind of you to visit this woman while you could.
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Thank you, Pat. I haven’t been to Australia.
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A lovely story, Robbie. You helped the woman, but she gave you the attention you might have needed at the time. Times are different now, aren’t they? I can’t imagine letting children of 8 and 4 go wandering around.
Fun street art photos!
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Yes, it was reciprocal. My sons had no freedom growing up. I’m glad I did.
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Different times for sure.
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Great story! You were a very kind young girl 🙂
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Thank you, Trent 🧡
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A lovely inspiring story Roberta. We need all the kindness we can find or give. ❤️
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Yes, we do. Empathy and kindness are innate in some people 🩷
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Wonderful story of kindness from you and your sister, and I love the street art Robbie! 😀
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Thank you, Brad 🩵🦋
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What a lovely story, Robbie!
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Thank you, Dawn
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A touching remembrance of kindness, Robbie. And that’s some fun art!
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Thank you, Dave. I enjoyed the Brussels street art. I dragged TC all over the city looking for it.
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This was such a great feel-good story, Robbie. You were so kind to help the older lady. 💜
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Hi Colleen, I’ve befriended several lonely aging people during my life. It’s part of who I am. 🤗🌞
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Those small acts of kindness are always remembered.
That’s some energetic street art! (K)
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Hi Kerfe, I have always enjoyed elderly people. I loved staying with Grannie Joan as a child. I enjoyed the Brussels street art for which the city is famous.
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Thank you sharing this heartwarming story. The kindness you and your sister gave to the elderly woman must have meant the world to her.
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Hi Liz, looking back, I’m sure it did. I have always made friends with unusual people. I think I’ve said before that mom calls me a people collector. I find people fascinating.
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My dad was the same way.
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Beautiful memory, Robbie. Your photos are remarkable, too!
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Thank you, Terri. I’m getting better at photography 💜
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It comes easy for you with your many artistic talents. Having a natural eye is half the battle!
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Yes, it does help to have a good eye
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Your childhood story as a Brownie is endearing and inspiring. I love how the sunlight sets on the afternoon photos. Fun art, too.
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Thank you, Jennie. I’ve always had unusual friendship. My mom calls me a people collector.
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That’s wonderful!
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What a wonderful story, especially since it led to a special friendship. When parents model looking out for others in kind ways, children often follow suit.
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Hi Pete, I’ve always remembered this old lady. I’ve always had a soft spot for the elderly. You are right about setting a good example as a parent.
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Great story. Love the photos.
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Thanks, Timothy
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A lovely story. I still remember my Brownie promise ‘.. to help other people every day…’ I’m not sure I was as good as you Robbie at keeping it, but as the eldest I did do a lot of shopping and other things for my mother.
I love those wall murals.
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Hi Janet, I am also the eldest and was always the first port of parental assistance. It’s still like that 💞. I remember the Brownie promise too 💖
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I was a Brownie too, Robbie, and remember their ethos of doing good deeds. You certainly did with the old lady. I’m sure she remembered you and your sister for years to come.
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Hi Esther,no did wonder what happened to her. In retrospect, I’m sure she was lonely.Brownies was fun 😊
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This is such a heartwarming story Robbie.
How very kind of you and your sister to befriend the old lady .
I am sure she was glad of the company.
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Hi Maggie, I’ve always enjoyed elderly people so I’ve had a few unusual friendships like this one. In retrospect, I’m sure this lady was lonely.
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Hi Robbie
I am the same.
I was a carer for the elderly for many years.
It was a very rewarding job.
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Yes, it is usually rewarding.
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Very much so Robbie.
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Hi Roberta
Thanks for your great example of kindness.
We like your photos of the street art. Most of these murals have the same style. They remind us of comics.
The Fab Four of Cley
🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂
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Hi Klausbernd, yes, the comic style is popular in Brussels. I’m pleased you enjoyed this post.
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I love the story and the vibrant art.
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Thanks, Craig 🩵
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What an amazing example, and what a great idea!!
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I’m pleased you enjoyed this post.
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Awwwww, what two kind young girls you were…I love street art. There are some very talented street artists. I also loved watching the “pavement artists ” many years ago. As a young girl, my auntie and uncle took me up to London one night, and I have been fascinated by street art ever since, as well as eating chestnuts hot from the brazier…Childhood memories are some of the best, I think 🙂 xx
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Hi Carol, childhood memories are lovely. I can’t think of anything bad in my younger years as I view that time through rose tinted spectacles.
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I’m the same Robbie about my childhood 🙂
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Your photos are wonderful, Robbie. I love seeing true street art (not graffiti) and you captured some great examples.
The best part of this post is your story and your poem. Thank you for sharing that lovely memory with us. It speaks to the goodness humans are capable of.
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Hi Dan, I’m pleased you like the Brussels street art. It is famous and you can go on a street art tour. I’m pleased you liked the prose shadorma ( I made this form up).
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A lovely story of kindness, Robbie. The old lady must have been so grateful. Your poem explains it so well.
I love street art, and your pictures are excellent examples. It brightens up the day and makes people smile. (Except the curmudgeonly, who see it as vandalism!)
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Hi Viv, in hindsight, I think we did cheer up this elderly lady’s day. I think she must have been very lonely living far from her children and with her spouse passed on. This street art is legal, so it isn’t vandalism. If it’s against the law I suppose it is vandalism but much of it is very nice from an art perspective.
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Love the story of you and your sister helping the old lady and the poem.
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Thank you, Sadje.
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You’re welcome my friend
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And I can see this random act of kindness brightened your life as well. Lovely remembrance.
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Thank you, Violet. I never forgot this elderly lady and I kept the pin cushion until it fell apart. Thank you.
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What a lovely reminiscence, Robbie — so is the poem. I enjoyed the city-scapes and the fun street art. Hugs.
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Thank you, Teagan. I’m thought you’d enjoy these pictures.
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Haha. You know I love color and whimsy. And yet I find myself working on my closest book to true horror. Hoping for Halloween publication, but it’s going slowly. (Shrugs) 🙂
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Yes, I know you do. I will be reading Cornelis Drebbel next on my list.
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An act of kindness can mean so much to someone in their moment of need.
We’ve all been there and with what feels like few reaching out.
You get the Nobel Peace prize for kindness Robbie.
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Hi Wayne, children don’t think about things like this to deeply but rather act on instinct. In hindsight, I think this lady was very lonely and delighted to have the company of us children. Your comment is very kind, Wayne. I’ve always enjoyed people and especially elderly people. They interest me and I like to hear their stories.
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you are a natural communicator Robbie!
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A lovely story, Robbie, and your photos are fantastic! We need more kindness in our country and in the world.
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Such a lovely story, and of course, I know that little place in Fish Hoek!
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Yes, it’s still similar. I have a lot of good memories from this 3 month period.
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Such a heartwarming story, Robbie. 🌸 Makes me think that even the smallest gestures really do brighten someone’s world. Love those artworks 🙌🏼
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Thank you. There is a lot of loneliness among the elderly. I always try to give them time.
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Love the story & poem of the old lady. I would be wondering what happened to her, how she got along after you were gone, too.
Your balcony pics a sensational. And…thank you for the street art pics!
All in all, this is one terrific post Robbie.
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I’m pleased you enjoyed this post, Resa. I always think of you when I see street art.
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I like that; being associated with street art. Thank you, Robbie!
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Robbie, thank you for sharing this beautiful act of kindness—and for pairing it with your shadorma prose, which holds such quiet grace. It made me pause and think: is every true act of kindness also a kindness to ourselves? In reaching out, we connect… and that connection nourishes both giver and receiver.
Your post reminded me how powerful even the smallest gesture can be. Thank you for holding space for gentleness in a world that moves far too fast.
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Hi Rebecca, it’s lovely to see you here. I hope you had a wonderful holiday. I do believe happiness can only be found by reaching outside of yourself.
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lovely story & pix, Robbie! some of the briefest encounters with people can leave such lasting impressions, some good & some bad…
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Hi da-Al, you are right. Thanks for visiting.
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